This SMALL STEP isn’t about doing one more thing for someone else. It’s about offering yourself a quieter kind of gift. It was prompted by the holiday season—and by the way this time of year can bring people we’ve lost closer to the surface.

Sometimes with warmth. Sometimes with complexity. Sometimes with a mix of feelings that don’t need fixing or polishing, just a little room to breathe.

If someone in your life has died—recently or long ago—and thinking about them brings up stuff, this invitation is for you. Not to gloss over anything. Not to tidy the story. Just to notice what might help you feel a little more settled in your own corner of the world.

If you want forward motion, here’s permission. If you want connection, here’s a way to give. If you want closure, here are some doorways. If you want containment, here’s a box.